Obsessed with winning

So what??! I learn a lot watching biggest loser, what of it???

Tonight, watching the two ladies face off made me laugh...one girl wins, and instead of saying, awesome, you won, the loser says, oh you cheated...so they rematch, and winner wins again. Instead of stating the obvious, the loser now says, whatever, it's really about the scale... And what do you know, the winner wins again!!! Now the loser is "pissed" bc it doesn't make sense.

Omg...

Admit youre a loser!! You lost!!!

Omg...i do that all the time...
No seriously, I do it all the time..check it out...

If I lose a competition, it was stupid.
If I lose a contest, I didn't really try.
If I lose a game, someone cheated.
If I lose a match up, it was unjust.

the funny thing is, I'm not obsessed with winning. I'm just obsessed with not losing.
Because people who lose, are losers.

to be competitive is cool, it can give you an edge and spur you forward to do great things...

But hating to lose is not competitive. You can avoid losing without ever being a winner. (see tactics above). Hating to lose breeds excuses, lack of passion, immaturity, whining, and an over all victim mentality.

So I'm going to try loving to win instead. Loving to win gives momentum, strength, integrity, passion.

I'm also going to try to not mind losing. Losing is cool. It means you played the game. it means you put forth some of yourself. And every loss teaches you something new about winning.

heres to being a happy loser!!

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